Smedes, Forgive and Forget
Lewis B. Smedes, Forgive and Forget: Healing the Hurts We Don’t Deserve. HarperOne, 1996. Also The Art of Forgiving: When You Need to Forgive But Don’t Know How. Ballantine Books, 1997. Referenced in: Church Conflict – Communication, Healthy Behavior, Forgiveness LifeandLeadership.com Summary Many resources on forgiveness set forth an ethic that seems unrealistic, almost Herculean.